Monday Monday

Hopefully everyone is back to work after the long weekend.  Did you have a nice Holiday?  I went to a friends house and there were about 20 people there.  No shortage of food, of course.  Being a vegetarian, I found plenty to eat and I’m pretty sure I could eat sweet potatoes every day for the rest of my life. 

One of my fave things about Philly are the streets where the whole block gets together and strings holiday lights from one row house to the other across the street and all the way down the street.  It’s so pretty driving by and looking at.  I’ve noticed that Philly is REALLY into their holiday decorating….theme windows for every occasion is the rule around here – which works for me since I love things like that.

So the holidays are officially upon us! Speaking of….I will be using a portion of every session tribute received from now until the 18th to purchase toys to donate for the holidays.  Also, if you bring me a new, unwrapped children’s toy, you can deduct $20 off of your session tribute!! So everyone wins!!

So I like to give, but who doesn’t like to receive??! Anytime a holiday rolls around, I get emails asking if I have any wishlists online.  So I’ll post it here for those of you who wish to include me on your own ‘naughty or nice’ list.   I have a huge wishlist on Amazon.  It’s mainly huge due to the fact that that is my ‘go to’ method of falling asleep, after masturbating and reading!! (not at the same time of course!)….so you’ll find a massive amount of things on there, from $2.99 to $2999. 

The link is:  http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/32NQGIQTFA6XY

I’m off to my best pedicurist, Hong, to get my toes done.  Bright red, of course.  Then I have a session with a lucky foot fetishist who gets to worship my newly pedi’d tootsies!   I will be taking sessions today, tomorrow and Thursday this week as well as Saturday/Sunday (Dec 6-7) with advanced notice. 

I will definitely be traveling more this next year, so be on the lookout!  I’ll especially be looking forward to spending more time in NYC.  It’s a great love of mine and will eventually be up there full time if I have anything to say about it!!

I just got a new double cane and a rubber slapper (ouch!) – who wants to be my guinea pig?? I have SUCH a huge amount of ‘implements’ now, it makes me smile just looking at it all…..kindof like opening up your closet and seeing all your shoes lined up and shiny (thanks to my shoe slut)…..it just brings a smile across my face!

Alright, time to get the show on the road.  Anyone want to be my maid? I’ve had such a hard time finding good help here in Philly.  I had a great sissy maid in DC.  Here, not so much.  So that’s my need…sissy maid…oh and web guy…you make me a beautiful website and in return you’ll get sessions! …and everyone wins.

More piccies will be up soon.  I just got this computer up and running after months of it being in the crapper….so bizarre, but I turned it on the other day and it’s working like a charm.  (knock wood)

Enjoy your day, my trinkets.
Mistress Regina

The Ball…

Well Diabolique came and went.  Not nearly as many people as I thought would be there, although it was a nice turnout on such a bitterly cold and windy night.  Remind me next time to not wear a wig, as it was bugging me the whole night and trying to slip off my head! 

The Domme auction was….well….not to be.  I am not sure what happened exactly, but somehow no one knew where to bid or who they were bidding on…so no auction at all.  I think all involved were relieved quite frankly….but at least it was silent bid this year – mainly because (go figure) I don’t know of any Mistress who enjoys being publicly humiliated….which is what it feels like when you have to go give a rambling schpeel about yourself to try and get bids!!! 

I relieved Mistress Dolphy at the Wheel of Fate (donate $5, spin the wheel and what happens happens!)…..I enjoyed tickling a sexy little lady, paddling quite a few people and then having my boots worshipped a couple of times.  Unfotunately, a drunky came and got lippy with us, had a stare down with Lydia Mischief -who ultimately and undoubtedly kicked his ass!  Speaking of Miss Mischief…really a delightful person..quite fashionable.  Enjoyed talking with her a lot and look forward to seeing her at future events!  Coral was there as well, but only saw her in passing. Never got to go say “hello”.

Renee, fantastic designer of “Baby Loves Latex” clothing was there and showing off all her great creations!  She’s so talented.  If you ever want something that’s one of a kind and fabulous, I would urge you to check out her work.  Beautiful.  Of course, if you’d like to treat yours truly to one of her fantastic creations…most notably the black draped dress I’m in love with (she knows the one I’m talking about), contact her and she will take care of the rest.

The ladies and affiliates of Passional Clothing had a great fashion show and Kali, once again, put her all into making this ball a great success.  It was all for charity.  Bread and Roses and The Women’s Therapy Center both will benefit from all the hard work put in.  We always seek volunteers and next year will be no exception I’m sure.  So if anyone wants to volunteer for a good cause and a fun time….let me know and I can put you on the volunteer list for upcoming events.  You get in for free and you get to meet a lot of interesting people.  Check out future info and galleries at www.phillyfetishball.com

Luci and Lacy Corsette were human trapeezes, suspended mid-air….all dressed in their “Super Slut” latex.  Looking fabulous. 

Lots of people came with some ingenious costumes…afterall, it was superhero/supervillan themed.  I had absolutely no creative costume whatsoever!! Black catsuit, knee boots and a utility belt with paddles, floggers, cuffs, etc. hanging off…..and that damn wig!!  Maybe I was “Floggerella” or “Wonder Spanker”!!

I was accompanied by a nicely hooded and leashed sub who carried my bag and assisted me.  I thought he would have enjoyed the evening a bit more, but it seems he is a bit down about it.  Perhaps he’s not as submissive as I thought.  Perhaps he had different expectations. Perhaps he’s really a “Dom” in sheeps clothing!? Perhaps next time he can go as a guest and I can be attended to by someone who is service oriented and truly enjoys being at my side/feet. 

As always, the end of the year always makes me think about what I would like to change in my life…new things to do…new horizons to check out….adventures to be had….bad habits to break and good ones to pick up.  Letting go of things that weigh me down and opening up to people and places that will bring me peace and happiness.  Afterall, isn’t that what life is about? So I will be spending a bit of time contemplating how I would like 2009 to be different from years past.  What to work on in order to grow, what to weed out in order to truly be happy and feel like myself.  I’m sure we all do this at the new year.  I wonder how many of us actually follow through.  I will challenge myself to make 2009 the best year yet, personally, professionally, spiritually…and urge and wish the same for you all.

Good day.
Mistress Regina

Join My Yahoo Group…go on, you know you want to.

…and I just so happen to be in a good mood – so permission granted.

Now if you join, I’d expect you to contribute….it’s no fun posting messages to myself when I have over 700 members!!  You’ll find posts, stories, lots of piccies and info if you’d like to set up a session!

So say hello.  I won’t bite………………………

www.groups.yahoo.com/groups/mistressreginadc

Good day!

Mistress Regina

Have whip, will travel.

I’ve decided that, starting the beginning of the year, I’m going to start traveling a couple days a week to various cities up and down the coast.  Perhaps I’ll travel a bit further if time permits.   This is good news for those who would like to see me, but do not live in the Philly area…and good news for me, someone who likes to see different cities, try new restaurants, meet new people.  

I will work on my calendar shortly, but definite upcoming “tours” will include New York City and my old stomping grounds (literally) of Washington, DC.  I will then be looking into other cities….Chicago? Boston? Atlanta? Miami?

More suggestions?

I’m off to spank a very naughty boy and then I am looking into making a movie….can’t you just picture me as an evil boss? Telling me that you’ll do anything, no matter how humiliating, to keep your job?  More details to come.

Enjoy your day, trinkets.

Mistress Regina

Fetish Ball

Well I’m in the middle of planning what I’m going to wear/go as to the annual Diabolique Ball here in Philadelphia.  The theme this year is Superhero/Supervillan….so lots of possibilities.  Of course, I like the idea of going as Cat Woman because a sleek rubber catsuit could be just the ticket.  Wonder Woman? Possibly.  I did just color my hair black (for the winter), so who knows…any ideas?

In other news…………………..I enjoyed a little session yesterday with someone who is turning into quite the pain slut.  Once the padded bit was in his mouth it was off to the races!  Single tail…..rubber slapper…leather paddle, hog slapper, crop, flogger, on and on.  Then on to his thighs for some quick little taps with the cane.  Three nicely spaced raised lines on each leg later and we were happy campers, admiring my precise work.  He reports today that they are nowhere to be seen this morning, but the memories will stay forever.

Next up….I have a sweet little game of “let’s play dress-up” coming up tonight.  I do love transforming boys into girls.  I’m thinking ruffled pink and black panties and matching bra might work…perhaps some stockings to show off those long legs.  Then time for some sinister play!

Alright…that’s all from the funny farm.  Until next time.

R

Working on a website – ugh

Talk about headaches……I’m trying to get as much together on my own before I turn it over to someone who actually knows what they’re doing. Pain in the ass, but I really want it to look how I want, my words, my philosophies, my layout….I’m tinkering with it on a free site just to get a look at how it will appear.  Will keep you posted once it’s on.   In the meantime, I’m off for a footie session!   This weekend I am also going to apt sit for my best friend up in NYC.  NYC will also be the next place I move to….slowly making my way up there for good!! I’m enjoying getting to know Philly though, so I don’t want to head out of town just yet!! Having NYC just an hour and a half away makes it not so bad – I can hop on the train or bus and be there in no time!

Foot Fetishes

Lately I’ve been concentrating on foot fetishes…….for one, I LOVE my feet being stroked, licked, sucked on and massaged.  Sometimes a client will want sparkly clean feet, right out of the shower.  Sometimes they will want a blackened foot or one that has been in a pair of hot Ugg boots sweating and stinking up for hours prior to their arrival.  It is like Christmas when they arrive and get to pull off those boots and socks and soak in the aroma!  Others enjoy pantyhose…and if you catch me on a good day, I might even let you take the pair I wore home with you!  Some are into more intense trampling, crushing, etc.  This, too, can be very exciting, but of course, communication (and skill!) is key.  I LOVE shoes and boots and have a great little Amazon wishlist that my friends, fans, clients, admirers and slaves who wish to get in my good graces often use to treat me.  It’s always so nice to open the door to find a present at my doorstep!! People are very thoughtful and I always make it a point to thank them on my yahoo group and in person when I see them. (just because you’re a Domme, doesn’t mean you leave your manners at the dungeon door!!).  M

My feet have very high arches and are usually painted a nice bright red. Nice long size 9’s (more to stuff in your mouth!!) I LOVE to get pedicures and can’t wait to get one next week when I am in NYC.  I want to look for the salon up there that – get this – uses fish (live teeny  little fish, bunches of them) to eat the dead skin off your feet!!! People who have done this say they will never go back to the old pedicure!! They say their feet are softer than they have ever been!  So, curious gal that I am, can’t wait to try it out!!  I shall report back my findings!!!

Welcome to My world!

Greetings!  Having recently moved from DC to Philly, I think I’ve finally become settled in my new city.  So now I thought I’d start a little blog to keep my old friends and new ones up to speed with the happenings in my life.  So…a bit about me.  I am a Dominatrix.  Specializing in foot fetishes, although I enjoy many facets of bdsm…..cbt, nt, feminization, humiliation, spanking and corporal punishment, roleplay, strap-on play and on and on and on.  I have a nice little playspace and all the tools and implements needed to make sessions memorable!!

It was quite an adjustment, leaving DC and all my great clients behind to go to a city where I really didn’t know anyone!!  I have met new friends, new clients and still do travel to DC and NYC to visit with old friends. 

I love what I do….that’s why I do it.  Many people assume that everyone is the ’sex industry’ (and even though I (and most Dommes) do not have sex with their clients or even get naked during a session – we are lumped in to the ’sex worker’ category)…ahh but I digress….people assume that one gets in this business because “wow, you must really hate men!!”…..the answer is no, absolutely not.  I enjoy men a great deal. I happen to feel that women are superior to men and I enjoy the rush that I get when a man is at my feet.  Then there’s the “you just do it for the money”….not at all, although it is a nice way to make a living if being a Domme is your cuppa tea.  I think anytime you do things you don’t want to do strictly for money, you’re selling yourself out and you’ve got to lose a bit of yourself everyday you compromise yourself.  I also hear “you seem very normal”…..why thank you.  I am quite a normal, everyday person.  I have a wicked sense of humor, I am smart, I go to the grocery store like everyone else.  I’m friendly and, while I am ‘the boss’ during our sessions, I truly do enjoy the connection that is formed between Mistress and sub/slave.  I have clients that I have known for years and consider friends.  I believe they feel the same way about me.  I think the more time you spend with someone – even if it’s an hour every week – you get to know them more, you get more comfortable (and vice versa), you find out exactly what makes them tick and are able to push those limits and help them release the fetish/fantasy that they’ve carried inside….maybe never spoken about or acted on before…..to me, when someone comes to me with a fetish or fantasy that they have been thinking of for years and years, and trusts me to help them explore it…to see that come to fruition is really a wonderful thing.